Money and Sex: What Do People Prefer?

May 29, 2008

I’ve always wondered why do prostitutes have sex? Is it that money so great that they need more or is it they love sex so much that they cannot stop? The simple question is, don’t some of these women get tired having seen so many naked people, and often times it is four to five times daily?  

In many cases, these women do not go home to traditional families: they live alone or with a nuclear family. What ever the situation is, the root of the problem often stems from earlier years of sexual abuse or unresolved family issues that lead to the extradition from stable family. The trade of sex extends thousands of years back and today it is the very same principle albeit in many cases in quite elegant surroundings. Is the lure for man so uncontrollable that admitting into purchasing sex seams reasonable. From the female perspective, I am perplexed as to the longevity of entertaining such a life or a career in prostitution. The discussion I am trying to entertain is Why the lure of unfamiliar sex. What is it that might be the motivating factor for women who engage in such unsavory careers and what is it about men that are drawn to these women.

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22 Responses to “Money and Sex: What Do People Prefer?”

  1. SoFlyG35 on May 29th, 2008 9:52 am  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    I say its neither the money or the sex…its the control they have over the men who are willing to pay for their service and the money and sex is like a bonus.
    Women has always been submissive to a mans needs and the fact that a man has to pay for a wild night of whatever he wants gives these women power over those men. These women are usually from broken homes or were abused sexually when they were younger and to have some kind of control over a situation gives them some satisfaction as brief as it may be.

  2. SoFlyG35 on May 29th, 2008 9:54 am  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    Ohhh I should say it works both ways because there are also Male prostitutes

  3. Out of Guyana on May 29th, 2008 11:11 am  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    There are also instances where some men fall in love with their prostitute and end up marrying them..no!

  4. Candy on May 29th, 2008 5:34 pm  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    SoFlyG35 not all prostitutes came from broken homes or were sexually abused.I’m a prostitute and i know what i want, I do it for both money and sex: it gives me freedom,everything i need and meeting intresting people with no strings attached.What i make for a day,you would probably make in a month. My family and friends dont know what i do but i give them everything that they need to live a happy and comfortable life and thats all that matters.

  5. Guest on May 29th, 2008 5:36 pm  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    Candy, do you wish to live like that for the rest of your life?

  6. Out of Guyana on May 29th, 2008 8:23 pm  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    Candy,
    If your family knew how you made a living, would they approve?

  7. Candy on May 29th, 2008 11:38 pm  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    My family would not approve. Over 90% of the world’s wealth is contained within 10% of the world’s population. Doesn’t seem fair,does it?I do what i do best,i love what i do and it pays alot.I have everything that i want and i can afford to let my parents live in luxury and that’s all that matters.

  8. Guest on May 29th, 2008 11:56 pm  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    Men wants Sex and women wants Money.

    -Women crave for money. They want money for security,power,self confidence and freedom it entails.The lack of money makes them vulnerable.

    -Men wants intimacy and the feeling of self-praise represented by sex.

    The lack of Money and Sex causes greed and entices humans to look outside the realm of marriage for it.

    It is wrong for a man to be looking for sex outside of marriage.Also it is wrong for a woman to advertise her willingness to engage in sex for money.

  9. Sam on May 30th, 2008 12:00 am  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    Well if i had a whole lot of money that would be nice and all my stress will be over.Then i can afford to have a nice home,send my kids to the best schools and buy my wife a nice car.But i’m stuck at a low end job so there goes my dreams.

  10. SoFlyG35 on May 30th, 2008 9:42 am  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    Candy with all do respect you if you read my response I didn’t say every single prostitute is from a broken home, its my belief is that most are….Think outside the box, if you are from a respectable home why would choose to be a prostitute, there are lots of other ways to make lots and lots of money.
    As far as money goes good for you I’m quite happy with what I make and the way in which I make it so please don’t try to insult me I’m not the one sleeping with God knows who for money.
    I have a question though, Why would you choose to become a prostitute? Don’t you want to settle down and have a family some day?

  11. SoFlyG35 on May 30th, 2008 9:47 am  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    Sam
    I have learned with more money comes more responsibility and more responsibility comes more stress…but just set goals and keep working towards them and sooner or later everything falls into place

  12. Candy on June 2nd, 2008 11:20 pm  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    Maybe someday if love is meant for me i’d probably settle.I have enough to buy a home and a car now so i’ll probably retire early…Life don’t always go the way you planned,sometimes you’re in a situation and you forgot to think about yourself and the consequences of your actions;then its rewarding to those who enjoy the benefits.Am i wrong to do all that i can to help my family when there was no way out?

  13. Trini on June 2nd, 2008 11:27 pm  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    No matter how much people have,it is never enough for them because they complain.Honestly,tell me who dont want more?Maybe that person lying to themself saying that they dont want more and therefore they dont really want to accomplish anything much in life.

    SoFlyG35 is living in his dream world.Let us know when you wake and if there is anything you need in your perfect little life?

  14. SoFlyG35 on June 3rd, 2008 10:01 am  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    Candy
    I guess in life sometimes we have to do whats needs to be done, if you’re ok with what you do then who am I to judge.
    If you have enough money now and you’re out of your situation what would you do for a job if you go into early retirement?

  15. SoFlyG35 on June 3rd, 2008 10:09 am  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    Trini
    Some people are just more simple to please and this is what makes us all so different, it takes a lot to make some people happy and then on the other hand it takes so little to make others happy and content.

  16. SoFlyG35 on June 3rd, 2008 10:36 am  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    Ohhhh Trini
    You see in my little “dream world” I have everything I want and I’m working harder to accomplish more and more every day, you see I want it all, and I will have it all, it just takes hard work and patience. Read my response carefully I never said I didn’t want more I said I was happy with what I make ($) and what have accomplished in life at the age of 27, you see I own my own home, I own a great car, I have a great job so I am doing well but like I said before I want more and I am driven to do better…It just takes my time and patience. Hard work and patience being the key ingredient.

  17. Joe on June 3rd, 2008 11:20 am  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    Prostituion is a career..They should be paying taxes and social security..Prostitutes are not IRA exempt. right?

  18. sunil b on June 3rd, 2008 12:19 pm  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    Prostitution is bad to many of you because this country and our media says it’s bad. There they go, controlling the views of the masses yet again.
    Believe it or not, there are parts of the world where it is an organized career. No, these women do not act in sex for the rest of their lives. Some retire at a relatively young age, where others go on to be madames of their own prostitution business.
    From what I can tell, these countries recognize that prostitution will go on with or without policing it, so they legalized it, protected the prostitutes and their partners, and in exchange, taxed them as all income is taxed. Everyone wins.
    It would be nice if some of you backed your thoughts up with facts rather than babble your spoonfed views.

  19. Annand on June 3rd, 2008 12:28 pm  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    I think it’s Shakespeare who once said nothing is either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.

  20. Joe on June 3rd, 2008 4:38 pm  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    In vegas, it ok, Why not the rest of America. No one whats it in their neighborhood but guess what some would go far distances to be with prostitutes. Politics in the US is a hipocracy. NY state former governer, enjoyed a little bit while out of state no. Thats like saying, i want it, just not in my backyard,

  21. Candy on June 4th, 2008 6:20 pm  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    Thank you Joe.Very intresting.People pretend to be saints infront of your eyes,even Bill Clinton and the Govenor do, but they all want to enjoy a piece of the pie…MORE….Sex,Money and Fame….

  22. Candy on June 4th, 2008 6:27 pm  Vote: Add rating 0  Subtract rating 0  

    SoFly, i have enough now and i am content,i dont have to worry about working for the rest of my life.Like you said,a nice home,car,huge saving account and if i’m lucky i might find someone to share with.We all make choices in life,whether good or bad we have to deal with the consequences,learn from our experiences and move on.

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